12 negative thoughts holding you back.

"We are addicted to our thoughts. We can't change anything if we can't change our thinking." - Anonymous.

1. "My past is indicative of my future." 
- Failed attempts and mistakes are part of the growth process, valuable experiences.
- Being defeated is a temporary condition, giving up is what makes it permanent.

2. "I care what they think of me."
- Ignore the rude people who talk about you behind your back, exactly where they belong.
- True strength is being enough to walk away from the nonsense proudly.

3. "I'll do what makes me happy someday."
- Today is the oldest you've ever been and the youngest you'll ever be again.
- The perfect moment to follow your values and pursue your own dream is now.

4. "I can't," "It's too late," "I'm not good enough," etc.
- Our attitude shifts our sails and ultimately determines not only our final destination, but more importantly, the voyage and experiences along the way.

5. "There's so much that could go wrong."
- Stop being afraid of what could go wrong, and start thinking of what could go right.
- Be thankful for all positive things you have to fuel an even brighter tomorrow.

6. "I'll never forgive you."
- Forgive them. You've learned about trust and being cautious when you open your heart.
- You're stronger now and better equipped to find the kind of love you deserve.

7. "I don't like them because they're broken."
- Be someone who builds and nurtures with an understanding, forgiving heart, and looks for the best in people and leaves them a little stronger than before.
- Don't surn up a person's entire existence in one moment.

8. "I'm too unhappy to make anyone else happy."
- Happiness is a boomerang. When you catch yourself feeling unhappy, doing something small that makes someone else happy. When they smile, it will be hard not to smile back.

9. "I can't trust anyone."
- We often keep our hearts closed because we don't trust ourselves to survive the pain again.
- We come to realize our true strength through hurt and sufferings.

10. "Everyone else is doing it, so it must be right."
- Live YOUR life.
- Never hide who you are.
- The only shame is to have shame.
- Stand up for what you believe in.

11. "It will never get better." or "It will never get worse."
- Appreciate every great moment.
- Take one dvy at a time.
- All moments, good or bad, would last forever.

12. "I don't have time to dream."
- The real tragedy in life lies in having no dream to reach.
- You don't have to see the whole staircase; you just have to take one step at a time.